RETURN TO INNOCENCE ~ 7 STEP JOURNEY

As I’m currently sitting down the lane I was brought up, looking directly at my childhood home, I felt inspired to write this post and 7 steps to reclaiming our pure innocence and child-like wander again. 💫

As I tuned into my intuition, my usual way of writing now, I quietly channelled the following 7 steps to return to innocence at any time in our lives, regardless of what we’ve been through or perceive as anything but pure and innocent living.

⭐️ STEP 1

Connection to the Divine Oneness where all source comes and materialises into physical manifestation.

You are Divine, a pure spark and part of the cosmos having a human experience. Never forget this purity of your soul which never ever goes away because it’s who you are. Pure and simple.

⭐️ STEP 2

Know thyself. See yourself in the eyes of God and Goddess, a child of LOVE as pure and natural as nature.

You are a beautiful expression of the divine. See yourself as the beautiful and magical emanation of all that is. With your own unique look, beauty and essence.

See your own unique qualities and and know you are here for a higher purpose, vision and mission.

⭐️ STEP 3

Speak softly, clearly and in truth. Find and discover your purest voice.

Express your truth with ease and grace. Sing and dance until your hearts content.

Share your unique message with the world, a capture of life only you can know and share.

⭐️ STEP 4

Connect to your heart of all hearts. Feel the oneness and unity of all. Here lies love and compassion.

First and foremost, give yourself the love and compassion you so dearly give to others around you.

Bring that Love energy home and feel your heart expand and take in more of life’s magical love and healing heart energy.
You ARE LOVE. 💗

⭐️ STEP 5

Know your fire and inner strength. Take aligned action towards goodness and wholeness always.

Discover your passion from within, your skills, strengths and resilience.
Know you have a purpose here on Earth and unique gifts to offer by just being you and showing up as the radiant, glowing individual you are.

⭐️ STEP 6

Surrender and experience the pure joy of being spontaneous and free like the river of life.

Tap into your senses, come home to your feelings, feeling is healing and your emotions are rich and rewarding.

Creatively express your own unique qualities and essence.

⭐️ STEP 7

Stand strong, feet planted firmly on the soil, knowing you are a part of Mother Earth, valued, loved and worthy of all the abundance surrounding you.

Tap into Mother Nature, nurture your body with nourishing foods and movement.

YOU are here for a reason, you are worthy as a physical manifestation of God and Goddess himself and herself.

HAPPY EARTH DAY, MAY YOU KNOW YOUR PURITY, INNOCENCE AND CHILD-LIKE WONDER AGAIN ON THIS MAGICAL JOURNEY CALLED LIFE. 🌏

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So much Love

Sharon

💙 CALLING BLUE RAY SOULS 💙

Blue Ray Souls, I’m calling you!

💙 You are the powerful Heart Healers of the World. 💙

You are here to heal dense energy and bring darkness into the light.

You are a TRUE LIGHT BEING. and gifted with a very RARE gift of Healing just by your Presence alone.

You SHIFT dark energy and alchemise what needs to be transmuted into higher and lighter frequency for all.

💙 Here are your Qualities & Traits that make you Unique!! 💙

💙 1) You are a SEER. You see everything. You are the personification of the Divine Feminine herself. You bring a light frequency that can shift lifetimes of dense trauma through your powerful blue violet flame aura.

💙 2) You are HIGH VIBE, different, stand out and people will gravitate towards you for healing. This includes our precious pets and animal kingdom. They feel your kindness.

💙 3) You are RARE. You are misunderstood and may have been the scapegoat or excluded in groups and communities. Even in personal development circles who are led by the oppressive patriarchal.

💙 4) You are LOVE. You have a big heart energy and a frequency that is rare and the world needs right now. Your empathy is strong.

💙 5) You have BLUE in your aura and you are here to speak out the TRUTH of situations, including uncomfortable topics like abuse and narcissistic abuse.

💙 6) You will gravitate towards HEALING professions like Energy Healer, Chiropractor, Speaker, Shaman, Reiki Master and many other healing modalities.

💙 7) You are KIND. Your motivation in life has always been LOVE and you cannot understand war. Your motivation is for everybody to be happy and healthy. You may be abused and need to heal to be able to share your gifts. Keep going, we need you!!

If you’d like to learn more and this resonates with you, please sign up below for my play letter and also to join my circle of Heart Leaders!!

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Much love Blue Ray Souls

YOU ARE NEEDED RIGHT NOW!!

Sharon

Blue Ray Activstor of Peace and Love

💗💃💙☯️💙🔮☮️🤗🐈

TOXIC ABUSE IN RELATIONSHIPS & BOUNDARIES FOR EMPATHS

As empaths, we know first hand what it feels like to be abused either overtly or covertly.

We often look at abuse as being physical in nature and the worst possible form of abuse.

I’m here to share another very powerful and potent form of abuse, which is covert and none the less toxic to any relationship, either friendship, family or foe.

Covert abuse, in my opinion is one of the most insidious forms of abuse. It’s hidden, dangerous and behaviour that is hard to “pin down”!

Non confrontation, triangulation, group scapegoating (family/work etc) are the main weapons of destruction.

If you have been in relationship with a covert abuser, you will know the “crazy making” tactics of theses “non confrontational” people.

To the world they are a “nice” person and behind closed doors or to those closest to them, they can become the worst perpetrators out.

Non confrontation is at the heart of this insidious behaviour.

Anything that is hidden, pushed down, avoided, denied does not go away.

It goes underground and seeps out in “emotionally covert” ways mainly on those who are innocent parties to the unhealed wounding.

A home or car is a perfect example of whether someone is “facing” things in life in a healthy way or not.

A person taking responsibility for their life will clean up after themselves, including their home, car and cupboards. These will reveal the persons accountability of facing life and their own shadow or “stuff.”

Unresolved trauma, big or small will eventually leak out to those around us if they aren’t faced and dealt with.

Health of the body is also a good indication in what is going on for a person on a more subtle energetic and emotional level. Any unresolved issues will eventually manifest in the physical in the way of dis-ease, illness or chronic pain.

Here are a few signs of toxic behaviour in relationships which will erode away any sense of safety or true connection in a relationship.

1. Resistance to giving the partner what they desire.

   For example, if a partner wants to hear compliments, the abuser will purposely stop giving compliments even if this was abundant in the initial “love bombing” stage.

2. Triangulation with other women.

   Particularly ex partners or with “friends” of the opposite sex they are attracted to.

3. Procrastination.

   Promising to do something eg sending a testimonial or review, but never doing it, as a way to maintain control.

4. Withholding.

   Withholding love and affirmation, both which are necessary for a healthy relationship to flourish.

5. Scapegoating with family or friends.

   Always bringing in the “I don’t have this problem with friends” when the dynamics of a platonic relationship will be very different to a more intimate relationship where emotions and vulnerability are high.

6. Projections.

   Projecting their perception of you onto you, when your intentions were pure and innocent. For example, sharing you are greedy when infact you are an incredibly thoughtful and giving person.

7. Unfair stance.

   “I’m right and you are wrong”. We all make mistakes and from my years of studying human behaviour, it is nearly always the empath who will own their “wrongs” and mistakes. Toxic abuse is when somebody is never wrong and always creates the “win/lose” pattern of inequality and destruction.

7 Steps Empaths can take to ensure this toxic abuse does not infuse your life and heart in a negative and diminishing way. Reclaim your healthy sense of power and self love!

1. Boundaries.

   Even as women, we are given the protector energy for good use. We can have our own back and sides and front! :) When we feel an unkind energy coming towards us, we can say NO to it, speak our truth or walk away. By saying NO to abuse, we are saying YES to Self Love!

2. Speaking your truth.

   For full self expression, it is so important we allow ourselves to share our truth in full flow. We have a message to share and it is an act of self love to share this with those around us, especially if somebody is going against the values and boundaries you believe in and are here to uphold.

3. Trusting your truth.

   Energy doesn’t lie, but words can. Women have a strong sense of healthy intuition. We feel, sense and see things that can’t always be quantified. There is a particular quality of a persons energy that we can feel. We need to learn to trust this a lot more. Your intuitive truth never lies.

4. Self love.

   What would self love do? If you were talking to a small child, what would be the most loving message and action you would share in a toxic situation the child was in? Self love is the most important lesson for us to learn as empaths. Infact, i’d go as far as to say our actual life depends on it!

5. Inspired action.

   Listening, seeing, intuiting are all amazing gifts of an empath. And the next step is often the missing piece for many. To take inspired action towards your YES and away from your NO. If somebody is treating you with disrespect, triangulating you, cheating on you, the biggest form of self love we can give ourselves is to take inspired action of moving away from the toxic situation. A lot more difficult to do, especially in an intimate relationship, and yet it’s the most important step to be free from abuse in any relationship.

6. Community Support.

   Tribal support is vital. We thrive when we feel a sense of safety in a group, family or community. For some empaths, it maybe difficult to have a healthy relationship with family, with others, their family maybe their soul tribe. It’s important to feel a sense of safety to be yourself and feel protected with the people you are with. Ensure you have a healthy community of people in your life who have your back…and sides and front! :)

7. Surrender to 1:1 Healing or Coaching.

   Not everybody needs help and support. Some people are able to navigate life by themselves and have only minor experiences of subtle forms of abuse experienced. For many empaths, though, we have the tendency to be the sensitive and the scapegoat in many situations. My advice for gaining support is to receive support from somebody who has been there and healed. There are many healers who have and are going through what you are going through. The best support will be from those who have healed and have expertise in your field of interest.

If you would love to know about the support I offer in the way of Transformational Retreats and Private Coaching, please do visit the following link to learn more.

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Here’s to self love and healthy boundaries!

Please leave a comment and let the know how you are empowering yourself in life to say YES to SELF LOVE and NO to TOXIC ABUSE!

Much love everyone

Sharon (Angelica)